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Erika J. Sovey's avatar

Happy birthday. You have eared every ache and pain. Funny and heart warming!

Nikki Meyler Miller's avatar

...and someday, I can't wait to read it!

This was such a good post, Amy! Funny, real, and informative!

Teresa's avatar

Happy 55th Birthday, my BFF, Amy!!! Welcome to the double nickel club!!

What you wrote, I enjoyed reading and learning about you!! I have some similar stuff. Dealing with my parents, and not wanting to go out.

Keep up the writing!! I'm so proud of you and can't wait for your 1st novel to be printed!!

Hugs, bestie!❤️

Lisa S. Graves's avatar

I can indentify on several levels

Helen Flores's avatar

So joyful, Amy. You express so much in this short, tight piece. From the overwhelming experience of mothering to the freedom you are loving now.

RusP's avatar

Happy Birthday, Amy!

I relate to all your posts, but this one hits close this week.

I love the line about the helium balloon.

When I talk about you, it’s because I’ll say something like, “Our friend Amy is a writer.” Which means, I still think of you as a mom and wife, but your role as writer is most prominent to me at this time in our lives. Congratulations on all of your accomplishments!

Amy Rottier's avatar

Oh Rustie! Thank you. That means so much!!

Siobhan Hartsell's avatar

Happy 55th Birthday, Amy!

Your post really resonated with me. As a mom of four, I understand so much of what you wrote about the unseen work of mothering, caring for aging parents, and trying to protect that quiet voice that says, I am a writer.

I'm 64, and after years of raising my family and living a full life, my first novel will finally be published on August 19. So when I tell you to keep writing, I mean it from experience. Your "someday" can absolutely become reality.

Happy birthday, and here's to the stories still waiting to be told.

Amy Rottier's avatar

Thank you so much! You are an inspiration Siobhan! I can’t wait to read your book. Chicago is a favorite we return to every couple years.